**Attracting girls comes down to the habits that make up your personality, so in today's lesson, I'm going to show you seven habits that will make women beg for your attention.**

We start with number one, make her say no to get what you want. You see, many men are so desperate that a girl says yes to all their requests, and that's the exact pressure that makes women feel uncomfortable and makes men act aggressive. I can't let you look like that, so I want you to rephrase your questions to get her to say no. This will make you feel safe, in control, and get exactly what you want. Let me give you an example: most men would ask, "Do you want to go out drinking this weekend?" Instead, I want you to rephrase the question and say, "Would you mind going out for a drink this weekend?" What will she say? No. I'll give you another example: most men would simply ask, "Do you have a boyfriend? Are you in a relationship?" I want you to say, "Are you not dating anyone right now, or would you be against a relationship?" By asking the question this way, you increase the likelihood that he will say no. This is what makes it safe and comfortable. The trick here is that her answer of "no" is what you asked for as "yes". I want you to understand that this is just my first tip, and even though you've gotten her to pay attention to you and give you what you want, it won't make her obsessed with you. To achieve this, you will need to apply the following six tips that I will show you.

That brings me to number two: start every interaction in a unique way. To become unforgettable for her, you have to be unique and different. That's why I'm going to show you how to make the best first impression possible that she'll never forget. During the study published on ResearchGate, the researchers gathered 123 university students. They took photos of the whole body in different poses, everything from positive, neutral, to negative. Next, the researchers gathered another group of students and asked them to rate each photo using 10 different personality traits, such as attractiveness, happiness or boredom. The researchers found that the more positive the expression, the better they were perceived by their peers, confirming that positivity directly affects that first impression. So when you communicate with a girl, I want you to compliment her using positive and unique words. You see, most men would give a compliment like, "You look great" or "You look nice." But instead, I want you to use words like, "You look amazing" or "That dress looks sensational." To really stand out, you need to bring a high level of positivity and energy to that compliment.

Number three: interrupt her so she remembers you. The Zeigarnik effect states that people remember unfinished tasks better than completed ones. You can use this to your advantage by interrupting her so she remembers you. For example, let's say you're at a party or in a coffee shop, and you're talking to a girl you really like. Most men would approach that girl, compliment her, and then stay as long as possible, hoping the girl would show interest. I don't want you to do that. You're too good for that. You have already watched this video. So instead, when you approach her, praise her using unique positivity like I just showed you. You can ask a few questions, and then during the conversation, I want you to pay attention to indicators of interest, which are signs that she is interested in you. For example, if he asks your name, touches your hair, or even touches your hand. Then, about a minute into the conversation, I want you to interrupt her, express that it was nice to meet her, but that you have to meet a friend. By doing so, you will end the discussion at the highest point and increase your perceived level of importance, making him want you even more.

Number Four: ask her for a favor and trick her into loving you. Look, I'm not just saying this; one study proved it. If you do a favor for a stranger, you will love them more. The reason is that your brain tries to figure out why you did something nice for a stranger by concluding that you must already love them. This is called the Benjamin effect. You can use this to make women beg for your attention. For example, you are standing in line at a cafe, there is a cute girl behind you. You can ask her if she can hold your coffee while you take out your wallet, or ask her for advice: what's the best thing on the menu? Act like it's your first time in that cafe. This will allow you to use the Benjamin Effect by asking her to do you a favor, which will also give you a natural way to start a conversation. And provided you get a few indicators of interest like I told you before, you can easily ask for her number, and you will get it.

Number five: get attention by changing the pitch of your voice. While filming a movie with Bruce Willis, 50 Cent learned how to control space by speaking slowly and quietly, a method that, according to recent research, leads to greater attention and better communication. So, I want you to listen to the way you speak. But finally, I want you to soften your voice as if you were talking to your grandmother. And by doing so, every woman in the room will be hanging on your every word, just like 50 Cent. Now, up to this point, you've gotten her to do exactly what you wanted by getting her to say no, you've started interacting with her in a positive way, you've interrupted her so she remembers you, you've gotten her to help you, thereby forcing her to love you, and now you command her attention just by changing the pitch of your voice. But there is one more thing that is crucial.

Totally command a woman's attention.

Number six: never start questions with "you can." When it comes to interacting with a girl, I want you to use the principle of authority to convey confidence. And you will do this by never asking the question "can I." The authority principle states that people are more inclined to follow others when they see them as an authority figure. To do it right, you need to stop asking a girl if she wants to do something and start telling her you want to do something. For example, instead of saying, "Can I take you out to lunch this Saturday?" start the sentence with, "I'll go out to lunch with you this Saturday, I'll pick you up at 12." Or when ending an interaction, don't say, "Do you want to hang out again sometime?" Instead, finish this sentence, "We have to go to this restaurant on our next date." And if you say it with a smile, extra bonus points. When you use these sentences, you not only convey confidence but also a position of authority, which, according to this research, women are programmed to want in a man. And so, now you have six new scientifically proven habits that will have her thinking about you and begging for your attention.

Although some typographical errors are possible due to translation or other factors, I believe the gist is conveyed in an understandable manner.